You were not born to fight for any man
Tell yourself that till you believe it
Remember this when you have to work to get someone’s attention
Worse when he makes you feel insecure
When he makes you feel like you’re not woman enough
Or talking to you or spending time with you seems like a chore.
You are rare, you are beautiful, you are enough.
Any man that sees you as less is undeserving
Is not worthy of the fire of your love.
The man is not a priced possession, is not a trophy
Is not something to show off, but constantly watch your back because someone might steal him
You’re the trophy, you’re special, you’re different
If someone else can conveniently ‘steal’ your man, then he wasn’t yours in the first place
Your relationship is not a war ground, where you’re constantly a threatened specie, wondering who he might be talking to, spending time with, wondering how fine or attractive the lady who will evict you from your position in his life is.
You need to see mediocre love as what it is - Disrespectful.
Emotional abuse is a destroyer of self esteem. And worse when you begin to look at yourself through the eyes of that person.
Tuesday 23 January 2018
23 01 2018
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Brilliant! :)
ReplyDeleteDope! A relationship is supposed to be a safe Haven for both parties. Insecurities you should be able to flaunt knowing that your partner would caress and accept....
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of a TLC song. Unpretty. Within the confines of a loving relationship, each party has a duty to reassure the other of their commitment towards the union. One party defaulting clearly depicts he/she is investing such a role elswherel, or is simply no longer interested in his/her position in your life.
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